Thursday, September 29, 2016

Paradise and Pain

How much has happened this week! Lots of firsts and an unexpected twist that makes me wonder if we’re going to be able to actually volunteer two solid weeks in a row while we’re here. My first week was spent almost entirely at home, and now Tyler is on enforced rest, orders of our “abuelo doctor”, with a (hopefully just) sprained wrist. But more on that later.

Celebrating Mary's 27th birthday!

This past Wednesday, the 21st, was my birthday. Because it was a Wednesday and we had the markets to go to, I didn’t expect we would do much, just go out for ice cream on the night of, and then go to Mindo for the weekend, both of which we did. We also had TMNT cake, compliments of the other volunteers, and our host family bought me a birthday present, of a BEAUTIFUL scarf and set of tagua-nut earrings. If you don’t know what tagua is, look it up. Super pretty stuff, and they do all kinds of crafty things with it. It was a very happy birthday, the ice cream was DELICIOUS, and all in all it was a very good day.

Then we went to Mindo over the weekend. We left early Saturday morning, and came back Sunday afternoon.

Funny story insert: When we arrived at the bus station, the bus was about to leave, so they told us to just get on. We didn’t realize there was assigned seating, and they apparently didn’t count tickets, because our seats were already assigned, so the bus manager, Francois, brought us up to the jump seats next to the bus driver, so instead of a sleepy two-hour bus ride to MIndo, we had front-row seats and a super fun conversation with Luis, the bus driver, and Francois the manager. Buses are a lot more exciting when you’re there watching the driver swerve in and out of traffic…

Anyway.

Mindo is a quiet little tourist trap town, surrounded by cloud forest. It’s also, incidentally, the birdwatching capital of the world, for people who do that kind of thing. It’s also the headquarters of Mindo Chocolates, a little artisanal chocolate making company which offers tours to see the production process.

It’s also one step short of paradise.

Living in paradise in Mindo.

We stayed in a cozy little ‘matrimonial room’ in the hostel Casa de Cecilia, right next to the chocolate place. (I hesitate to call it a factory, because most of the building is also a hostel, and a restaurant, and a shop). The Mindo river flows just a hundred feet or so away from one of the windows. Birds and hummingbirds come throughout the day to munch from the hummingbird feeders and banana trays, just outside the small breakfast area. Our room had a private bathroom, with hot water, water pressure, and a flushing toilet. (You miss these things when a shower feels more like a light rain, and you have to use a bucket of water to flush the toilet, which sometimes misses and gets the ground wet, which is SUPER gross when you’re wearing Fivefinger shoes. FYI.)

The air is moist, but not unpleasantly so, and the temperature is mild. Friendly locals were happy to direct us to our hostel, and Manchas (which means Spots), the hostel dog, was happy to greet us on our arrival. The receptionist, who is also the owner, gave us a map of town, explained where everything was, and offered to sell us tickets to any attractions we wanted to visit. We decided, after breakfast, that we would see the hummingbird exhibit, the orchids, and the chocolate tour before dinner, and in the morning we would hike out to see the waterfalls.

The hummingbirds were beautiful, the orchids were tiny, and Tyler and I were very excited for the chocolate tour…until the American came to join us.

From start to finish, how to make chocolate.

I call her the American because she represents everything I feel like people hate about traveling Americans. She asked to have the tour in English, interrupted our guide to correct him at least once, and generally made a nuisance of herself. I know it’s terrible to dislike someone without getting to know them. I also know that I’m human. Hopefully you’ll forgive me, and hopefully before I forgive her, because that will take a while.

Other than the American, the tour was very interesting. Our guide, Jorge, explained the entire process from cacao pod to finished chocolate or separated cocoa butter and powder, and showed us the entire thing. We even got to taste the cacao fruit, which tastes nothing like chocolate but is very good. At the end, we sampled the different products, from 100% pure chocolate, to 85%, to 77, with and without ginger or chili, to the chocolate syrup, brownie, chocolate tea, and, strangest of all, the chocolate barbecue sauce. It was so good we came back for chocolate BBQ wings the next day.

Dinner was amazing, and we got to try canelazo, a warm drink served with or without alcohol. According to the other girls, it’s much better without alcohol. I also got to try house made ginger ale, wth fresh ginger and lemon and without alcohol. It tastes amazing, but wow, that stuff BURNS going down. Tyler was not a fan.

Hiking through the jungle to visit the waterfalls was an amazing journey.

Sunday morning, we had breakfast and headed out to the waterfalls. It’s either a 6 dollar ‘taxi’ or a two-hour hike to get to the cable car, so we elected to share the cost of the taxi. We rode standing up in the back of a truck along a bumpy road, passing people, cars, and a small sugarcane juice stand on a road that should rightfully only be a one-lane road. Then it was another 5 dollars for the cable car out to where the hike through the cloud forest starts.

When I first looked at Mindo, the term ‘cloud forest’ made me think of tall trees, misty fog, and birds chirping everywhere.

This is almost exactly nothing like that.

The sword ferns are the size of small palm trees. There’s a constant drip-drip as water from the rain the night before falls from leaf to leaf on its way down. The path is more of a mat of dead and decomposing leaves than dirt, and everything is slick and wet to the touch. The only noise was a distant sort of hum or buzz from insects. Occasionally you get a view of the rest of the valley, covered in trees, but the rest of the time it’s a mix of giant, human-sized leaves and tiny flowers of tiny plants that grow from the tiny moss on the long tree roots. It’s like trying to keep your footing on a long, rock-filled slip-and-slide, with a nearly sheer cliff face on one side, and dripping leaves on the other. Part of me was in super-EWWW mode, part of me was fascinated by the crazy variety of plants, and most of me was just trying to move forward while staying upright. Tyler, of course, bounded along with the ease and grace of a monkey.

But the waterfalls…Oh, my. I’ve never seen anything like them. They’re like the jungle: beautiful, mysterious, slippery, commonplace (it’s just water flowing over rocks, right?) and yet it’s so much MORE that you linger to stare at it, trying to pinpoint exactly what it is that makes it so special. You know that there’s more to it than meets the eye, and yet…how to explain it?

The gorgeous path through the jungle to get to the waterfalls.

Does that make any sense at all? I can’t describe it accurately. This is not the forest of the fairy tales I grew up with, where the elves and sprites and fairies might dance in the woods when no one is around. This is the jungle, where a magic as deep and old as time lurks just below the surface. It’s green and lush, and at the same time dying and decaying all around you. It almost feels like a living, breathing organism, inhaling life and growth, exhaling death and decay, conscious you trespass, yet curious to see what you will do.

Not anything like the mosquitos, who found our ankles quite juicy and tender. I’m still not sure how we forgot to put bug spray on our ankles. I guess that’s the price of visiting such otherworldly territory, and we were both happy to pay it. We’re planning to go back to see more butterflies after we finish volunteering.

Back to the relatively mundane world of southern Quito and the markets. We got new volunteers this week, from Canada, the US, Wales, and two from Ireland. I’m counting that as one of the many ways we were blessed on Tuesday.

Tyler signed up this week to work with the older kids, while I stayed with the 1-6 year olds. That means I play with a lot of Legos and blocks, and he plays ball with the 7-17 year olds, until it’s time for the age-specific activities. After lunch on Tuesday, as they played something between volleyball, soccer, and Tyler-ball, one of the kids accidentally threw the ball onto the top of the wall, among the rose bushes at the top. Tyler, mountain goat that he is, easily jumped up to the top of the 12-foot wall, threw the ball back, and came back down. Twice. The third time, there was a grate directly underneath him, so in order to avoid a sprained ankle, he did a sort of jump-and-run-down-the-wall maneuver, which would have been fine if the top layer of bricks had not decided that it was their time to go.

Tyler being attended to by the "Abuelo Doctor", Enrique, after his fall.

This is where we start counting blessings.

1)None of the bricks fell on him; they instead fell around him as he fell. He also didn’t land on any.

2)Despite the fact that he was at least 12 feet up, he managed to fall in such a way that he didn’t hit his head, his spine, or any other super-critical body parts.

3)One of the new girls from Ireland is a nurse and was able to check him out, make sure it was just his wrist that was injured, and splint him up using his jacket, his belt, and an ace bandage from the first aid kit, as well as cleaning up his elbow which got scraped up a bit in the fall.

4)He didn't break anything, as far as we can tell, and his only injury seems to be a sprained wrist.

5)Enrique, our house grandpa, had training as a chiropractor and in general medicine. He checked out Tyler’s wrist, rubbed menthol cream (apparently it’s the Ecuadorian version of IcyHot) all over his wrist, asked him a bunch of questions, did a bunch of exercises with his hand, and pronounced it nothing more than a ‘golpe’, a hit, which should heal fairly quickly. He has been very careful to make sure Tyler is ok and has taken very good care of him.

I’m not sure if Tyler is more concerned that this might prevent him from going canyoning in Baños, or that this will prevent him from using his nice camera. Either way, this week should be interesting!

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Living the Unexpected Life


Living at the Lima airport during a layover on our way to Quito.

Lately it seems like every time we turn around, there are new surprises everywhere we look. We thought there would be a mailbox at the LAX airport (there wasn’t) and free WiFi at the Lima airport (only for 10 minutes). We also thought we would be in a home stay, with just us and the family, and that we were done being sick. Oh, and we also thought that going to Ecuador meant leaving behind everything American.

How wrong we were.

There has been so much that has come as a surprise that I almost expect things to go wrong now. Or maybe not wrong, but definitely not the way we planned. I was out sick from Tuesday afternoon on last week, with a throat infection and bronchitis, and Tyler is still recovering from being sick in California. Talk about unplanned and unexpected things!

I remember my first meal at a church member’s house on my mission. She fed us papas a la huancaina, which is delicious, but totally unfamiliar to the American palate, and a bunch of other things that didn’t look at all familiar. Finally, she poured me a cup of deep purple grape juice that she had mixed in a pitcher. Grape juice! I was so excited to see something familiar that I took a huge gulp before realizing that it was definitely NOT grape juice, and didn’t taste like anything I was remotely familiar with. I feel like that’s a good metaphor for here. We’re in a completely unfamiliar world, but sometimes we run across things that are so familiar that it almost hurts to realize it’s not like it is at home. Like going to the bathroom in a normal toilet and then remembering the toilet paper needs to go in the basket, not the toilet, which makes for working sewer pipes and nasty-smelling bathrooms. Or hopping on the bus, which looks so similar to those at home, only to have someone come aboard and start asking for money, selling fruit or sweets, or performing on the bus. Things that wouldn’t really be tolerated, let alone encouraged, in the states.

And then, we have blindingly beautiful moments, like today when I took a child to her parents and as I was leaving she called out, “Ciao!” so I would have to turn around and smile at her one last time. Or the moment last Thursday when I was thoroughly sick of being stuck home alone in the same room being sick, and Tyler brought home roses. Or last night, when all the volunteers were talking and someone noticed that the sunset was especially beautiful. Suddenly there were several of us crowded onto the balcony to admire all the beautiful colors. Or when I first put on my birthday present, a beautiful bright blue poncho made from alpaca wool that is both incredibly warm and incredibly beautiful. (One of the other volunteers told me I look like an elf while wearing it. I’m not sure whether or not to take that as a compliment, but hey, at least I didn’t pick a Christmas-themed color, right?)

The changing of the guard at the Presidential Palace. It occurs every Monday at 11 am.

We’ve gotten lost in the city, gotten sick, and I’ve been cried on, flirted with, and both complimented and condemned. Our shoes get more stares than a purple zebra. I’ve gotten more glue on my clothes than you want to hear about, from the children’s projects, and at this moment my heart’s desire is for a long, steamy, high-water-pressure hot shower and a washer and dryer.

But at the moment, most of what I’m feeling comes down to something I feel like I’ve acquired over the past week and a half from living in Latino culture: when you don’t have anything else, you still have family. We’ve been able to talk with family in the opposite hemisphere, and always, no matter what, Tyler and I have had each other, and no matter what else may happen over the coming months, we both feel like as long as that’s true, we’ll be just fine.

CANTUÑA

On our first morning’s excursion, our guide, Luis, told us the stories of the cathedral and the nearby convents. My favorite was the story of Cantuña, the famous architect who was asked to build a convent. He was given one year’s deadline, but with all the other projects he had, he forgot about it until he realized he had only one day left until the deadline. So he made a deal with the devil. The devil would build the entire convent in one night, in exchange for Cantuña’s soul. But unknown to the devil, he took one of the stones at the base and hid it, so when the devil came to collect the next day, he showed him the hole and claimed the devil had not fulfilled his part of the bargain. The devil was cheated, and Cantuña kept his soul. The people were so impressed that they incorporated his story into the statue of the Virgin that now sits atop a small hill in the center of southern Quito. There is a snake at her feet, representing the devil, and a broken chain in her hand, representing how Cantuña cheated the devil and broke free of his deal.

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Thursday, September 15, 2016

The Future Has Arrived!!!

From Tesla to Tomorrowland: The Future Has Arrived!

No matter how old I get, every Christmas Eve, I go to bed with the same butterflies in the pit of my stomach. Even if I know what all my presents will be, there’s still that moment of anticipation, of knowing that one of the most special days of the year is about to arrive, and it’s ALMOST HERE. And then, on Christmas morning, there’s this almost surreal realization that it’s here, it’s morning, and that much-anticipated tomorrow has arrived. Is it weird that I feel the same way right now?

Tesla Model X
The future truly has arrived! The Tesla Model X that drives itself!
We started out this week with a silent glide forward into the future in the Tesla Model X, their SUV model. I could write about it till the cows come home (or we do) and I still couldn’t say enough about it. We certainly talked the ears off of everyone in both our families all week long. I had the song “The Future Has Arrived” in my head the entire time we drove it. It drives itself, has free supercharging stations all over the country, and accelerates so fast you can’t reach the dashboard if I’ve got my foot on the gas. Plus the Delorean-style automatic doors, the self-parking and self-parallel parking features…. Anyone want to donate a hundred thousand or so? :D

Anyway. Let’s get back on track. We had an amazing week, at the zoo, (there was a cheetah on a LEASH following its dog buddy!) the beach (it wasn’t warm enough for the water so we built an AWESOME moat for a castle that never quite made it to reality), and Disneyland, where Tyler was sad because Space Mountain was closed, but *I* had lots of fun and dragged him along with me to the castle and Tomorrowland and we went in a SPACESHIP!!!! And we had an awesome jungle cruise with a guide who had more corny jokes than a bag of Laffy Taffys. We finished off the week with a visit to the San Diego temple, which I decided is definitely more castle-like in some ways than the Sleeping Beauty castle, which felt more like a play set. Then the Balboa Park butterfly gardens and lunch at Mod Pizza for some classic American pizza before we headed home to seriously pack up.

Our Gear
Here it is... This is all that we are taking with us for 13 weeks in South America!

Two emotional breakdowns, one unnecessary trip to the store for things we thought we needed, LOTS of tissues for Tyler’s head cold, and several goodbyes later, here we are at LAX where, unfortunately, they don’t believe in mailboxes to send things home. Looks like our cell phones are coming with us as glorified service-less iPods, to be mailed home at a later date. (Also to the McFarland clan, sorry, we had to dump last year’s stocking stuffers that we never gave you. They wouldn’t have made it through security.)

The plane starts boarding in a few minutes. Is it too late to run home and get one more taste of everything American??? I’ll take a Frosty, a Slurpee, more Mod Pizza, our nice comfy bed, and about two dozen showers in clean water….As we embark on this new adventure, goodbye to everything we knew, and hello to everything we haven’t learned yet. Goodbye USA, saludos a Ecuador!

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